Imperfect Hospitality, Perfect Love with Guest Abby Kuykendall

In this episode of The Encourager Podcast, Rebekah sits down with Abby Kuykendall, author of Let the Biscuits Burn, to talk about the heart of true hospitality. Abby challenges the myth that hospitality is about perfect meals, spotless homes, or elaborate planning. Instead, she emphasizes that authentic hospitality grows from flexibility, availability, and intentionality.

You’ll hear Abby’s practical encouragement for making hospitality a natural part of everyday life—whether that looks like inviting someone over on a whim, serving store-bought snacks, or simply creating space for real conversation. She shares how planning to not be perfect can actually open the door to deeper connection and lasting community.

Abby also introduces her cookbook, The Living Table, filled with simple, approachable recipes designed to make gathering easier and more meaningful. Her message reminds us that people don’t need perfection—they need our presence.

✨ What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  • The 3 essential qualities of authentic hospitality: flexibility, availability, and intentionality
  • How to shift from performance-based hosting to people-centered connection
  • Why it’s okay (and even holy) to “let the biscuits burn”
  • Practical tips for starting small in your hospitality journey
  • How to use simple meals and rhythms to reflect God’s love at your table

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